Most elderly people these days are very healthy, lead active lives, and do not need any special attention. Those who are ill or injured, however, can become vulnerable to abuse and neglect by care providers and family members. We have an obligation to care for one another, and to be concerned when we see mail piling up on the steps, vermin crawling over the walls of a home, or hear cries and moans in the depth of the night.
Instructions
1. Call or visit elderly neighbors and family members. Strong social ties are crucial for fragile or at risk elders. If you notice signs of abuse or neglect, take note of the date, time, and people involved in the situation. For example, you stop by your neighbor's home and see that she has a bruise on her arm. She acts ashamed when asked how it happened. Her daughter comes into the room and you notice that your neighbor shrinks as she approaches. When her daughter leaves the room, your neighbor seems more relaxed. When you get home, write down on your calendar, "Unexplained bruise on right forearm, the size of a quarter. Mary shies away from her daughter when she enters the room." Then you add the date and time of your observation.
2. Once you have gathered two or more reports of the same type of injury, it is time to make your report. Call your local Adult Protective Services and give them all the information you have collected. In the meantime, keep observing for any signs of further abuse or neglect. If you see signs that an elderly person has been assaulted, is suffering gross neglect, or is in immediate danger of further harm, call the police immediately.
3. If you suspect nursing home abuse or neglect, call the Long Term Care Ombudsman in your state.
4. Educate others on recognize abuse and neglect. Support local agencies which provide services to fragile and at risk elders, such as the Area Agency on Aging. Volunteer or assist in a fundraiser to raise awareness of domestic violence and elder abuse issues in your community.
5. Call, email or write to local, state and federal officials in support of legislation and funding to prevent abuse and neglect.
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